Wednesday, May 27, 2015

Where You Are Meant to Be

I am often asked what an individual is meant to be doing with his or her life.  Where are they supposed to live, what is their correct job, what is their purpose in life.  The simple answer is, you are right where you are meant to be, in the right place, in the right time. 

Fate, while it dictates certain events to happen in our lives and the means of getting to our life lessons on time, does little to present events in our day to day lives.  So you are with the people you are meant to be with, you are working at the correct lessons for where you are on your path, and though you may yearn for better things in life, more meaningful things, you are doing exactly what you came into this life to do.

Sometimes we feel that there is more than our simplistic life.  We want to be part of the change in the world, the part that brings more enlightenment to the world.  In that regard, we hold the answers:  meditate, pray, surround yourself with harmony in the people you interact with, be at peace with yourself.

Many people believe that the reason they’re having a mid-life crisis is that they don’t feel they are doing what they are meant to do.  The truth of it is that they are not taking time out from busy schedules to reward themselves with “me” time, in which they reward themselves for doing the job that once thrilled them to the core.  So they become stressed, bored, even bitter, for doing what once felt like a dream job.

The easy solution is to spend 30-60 minutes each day, doing something just for yourself.  Some people like to listen to soft music.  Others like to read. Some would like to take a walk in the woods, while others still, would like to knit or crochet or work with wood.  It doesn’t matter so much what you do, so long as it takes your mind off the stresses of the day.  Use the gifts that you have been given to accomplish change in the lives of others, but save some time to yourself to reward those accomplishments.  This is how to keep a fresh attitude with your life’s choices, reduce stress and keep smiling with regard to what you choose to do for your vocation.


May you be richly blessed!

Saturday, April 11, 2015

Us vs. Them


There have always been adversarial behaviour and attitudes within the human species.  It erupts in violence more often than we would like to think.  Yet, here we are, little skirmishes and great wars on our plates day in and day out, in this, the 21st Century, when this should be a time when we come to know harmony among all people.

Let’s take a historical look at our own development to get some perspective on this concept.  When the great American experiment of blending many nationalities and cultures began, the common feud was regarding employment.  To be sure, no one wanted to be displaced from a job, lose his social position, have his livelihood taken away.  But more people kept coming from more places and they all needed work, food, housing and so forth.  Prejudice became an accepted form of dealing with the competition.  Hatred and violence were the manner in which power was gained:  power to succeed, power to meet the needs of the people in one’s cultural group.

Over time, acceptance of certain groups grew as reconciliation of goals were established.  Often, joining forces was the lesser of evils to defeat a common enemy.  The key was to retain power in whatever manner it could be achieved.  Whichever group was viewed as having less power, having weaknesses, was usually selected as the common enemy, taken advantage of, violated, given the lesser quality of life, less pay, less food, lesser housing.  These groups have shifted over the years, as public outcry for equality and respect brought about a cautious balance.  Allied groups accepted each other and the intermarriage of cultural groups has taken place, such that the lines between nationalities and cultures have become blurred.  This resulted in the transference of prejudice to a different group of people.

Today, shots are taken at people based on sexual orientation, disability, advanced age and gender.  Race is still a factor for many people, as well.  It all boils down to an individual’s need to feel superior, to excuse why he or she has the right to have more, do more, be more free, or merely to be right.  If someone can say, “I am right and they are wrong,” they feel entitled to more power.

And here we have the crux of the situation:  entitlement.  If I am better than others in some way, my life is worth more, I deserve more, and my family is higher on the scale of power than others.  For shame!  The truth of the matter is, no one life is more important than any other. NO ONE is more important than any other.  Every life is of equal value.  That is true whether one lives in the highest circles of society in the wealthiest nation on earth, or whether one heats his home with cattle dung in the poorest nation on earth.  It is true regardless of religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation, health condition, disability, age, education, beliefs, whether or not you carry a gun, or any other variable you can consider.

There should never be an US vs. THEM situation.  There should be a desire on the part of all people to raise up those who have less or at least have greater needs.  Why?  Because when we do this, our entire society improves, appreciates, grows, and picks itself up by the bootstraps.  Not only does the power of one group grow, but the power of the society as a whole is enhanced.

Now let’s extrapolate this to include the entire world.  Our diversity with other nations causes more violence, more destruction, more hatred than we may have ever imagined.  We may believe that we should police the differences between various factions in less powerful countries so as not to disrupt the power structure and economic well-being of the so-called civilized world.  For shame!  We would not tolerate such intrusion into our own affairs;  why do we think it is acceptable to intrude into the affairs of other countries?   Power.  Greed.  Entitlement.

Do you think that because the United States claims to be a Christian nation that it is entitled to have more power than others?  Should we be wealthier because we’re right?  Are we entitled to have the most say in how others should run their countries?  These are certainly not Christian values, nor are they Christian attitudes.  I say to anyone who disagrees, that it is time to clean up your own back yard.  Jesus healed the lepers rather than segregating them.  He said, “Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.”  He said, “Whatever ye do to the least of these, ye do also unto me.”  I wonder why the Christians do not believe their own Messiah. 

Let us consider the greatest crisis that our world is facing at the present moment, the terrorist threat of the group known as ISIS.  I do not like that moniker, as Isis was the mother goddess of Ancient Egypt, revered and blessed.  But times change.  Our current challenge is to understand what these people are trying to say, with their actions brought about, no doubt, by being at their wits end to be recognized for their beliefs and differences.  We cannot claim to respect all people if we are not willing to accept that there is reasoning behind their violence.  I am not saying I agree with their acts of terrorism, their hatred, or their violence.  However, on some level, they are trying to get the world’s attention and recognition of their right to exist and believe as they wish.  They may not be willing to be forthcoming as to the truth of their beliefs and the bottom line of what they want.  But can we not listen?  Who has ears to hear?


The greatest trouble of our time is the result of feelings of entitlement and power.  What horrible fear it would bring to place each person on an equal footing with every other person on the planet.  We would all have the same rights, the same access to food, clothing, shelter, health care, education, jobs, life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.  And perhaps, just perhaps, that happiness would not require that we take it from someone else.

May you be richly blessed!